- They love ham flavored everything… im currently on the airplane to patagonia and I was just handed ham flavored crackers. Also a lot of times the meat comes in like a creamy spread form, and I have yet to try it so my parents think I don’t really like meat that much. False, I love meat but I’m not down with cheese and turkey spread on my sandwich!
- Fun fact about my host dog: she doesn’t like dog food. There is always a bowl of dog food out and she refuses to eat it but whenever someone at the table is eating lettuce she freaks out so my mom usually makes her, her own meal… sometimes it’s salad, sometimes its mashed potatos and hot dog meat, I’ve seen her eat pasta once.
- Chileans love facebook. I’ll go out one night and the next morning my friends and I will all get friend requests from guys that I don’t even think we exchanged names! Also they call it “face” not facebook so some guy will ask “cual es tu face?” which means “what is your face?” It took me awhile to figure that out. Also my friend’s host mom is obsessed with facebook and it was actually a problem cause her family kept telling her that it was getting out of hand, but I love it. She comments on all of our facebook albums and likes everyones status all the time.
- Chileans cut off the ends of all their words which is one thing that took me awhile to understand because that’s what sometimes makes it so hard to understand what they’re saying. Instead of más (more) they will say “ma”, instead of “nada” (nothing) they will say “naa” instead of porfavor they say porfa. Now that I’m use to it I really like it cause it’s easier to say stuff if you’re lazy, 1 syllabul instead of 2, but I know once I go back to the US my Spanish teachers are not going to appreciate it.
- It’s okay to sleep until whenever o’clock. This I really like and will miss, but sometimes my mom will sleep until 1pm or 2pm on the weekends and I think that’s awesome! Time in general here is very relaxed, many times people will waltz into the classroom 40 min late and the teacher will smile and greet them like it’s nothing.
- Bread. They love bread. Every day for dinner or “once” as we call it, I have bread and jam, bread and avocado, bread and cheese, bread and turkey (when its not spreadable turkey of course), or just bread sometimes! I’m lucky because my host mom makes all the bread herself so it is so good, but I have to admit I’m pretty sure I will need a pretty big break from bread when I get home.
- They really don’t know how to make baked goods. My friends and I will order brownies usually for dessert and we’ve always been disappointed. It’s just like brown bread, but they do know how to make ice cream. They have ice cream stores everywhere and they definitely know what’s up.
- Kissing on the cheek. I’m actually going to miss this because I like getting a big hug every time I get home from school, but you don’t just kiss your family on the cheek you kiss someone every time you meet them or see them even if you don’t know them! I’ve gotten really use to it and me and my American friends do it to each other sometimes.
- No one eats out at restaurants. It makes sense actually, because it’s expensive and a lot easier to just eat and cook at home, but it’s funny because there are so many restaurants in vina! They’re everywhere! I guess its cause in the summer there are so many tourists, but in the winter they’re completely empty!
- If you wear shorts you will get stared at. It’s not as bad now that it’s around 80s in vina, but when it was 70s I would go out in shorts and I would get the weirdest looks and cat called (definitely not going to miss that.) I guess it’s cause 70s for me is warm but for them it’s still spring weather and they are perfectly comfortable in pants and a sweater.
- Propios or pick-up lines. In my first Spanish class at school we actually had a long talk about this because our teacher wanted to know how we felt about it. At this point I don’t really notice it anymore, but if you’re a girl and resemble a tourist at all (blonde hair doesn’t really help this) guys will come up to you and creepily whisper that you’re beautiful or scream at you from cars or down the streets. My friends and I have asked Chilean girls about it before and they’re just so use to it and it doesn’t bother them. I get confused though because I can’t help but think what is that guy thinking? If he’s shouting “gringa” from his car, does he think I’m going to waltz on over and give him my number? Ask him on a date? No. Also they are very lustful. My friend went on three dates with a guy and he told her that he was in love with her and that he was bewitched by her and wants to move to America, needless to say she ended that relationship asap.
- Politics here are a sensitive subject depending on whom you’re talking to. One thing is that only about 20% of the younger generation votes, and if you ask them it’s simply because they don’t care. On the other hand if you ask your host parents you have to be careful because the dictatorship of Pinochet in the 70s and 80s is still a sensitive subject. My mom gets very angry when she talks about it because someone she knew was killed because he didn’t follow the curfew rules implemented by Pinochet. (He would place curfews so that no one was allowed to be on the streets at certain times and my mom who was a teenager at the time was especially annoyed with it because you couldn’t get to together with your friends. Aka party, unless it was organized and everyone there was going to spend the night at the place. At one point the curfew was as early as 4pm!) However, as horrible as Pinochet was, there are some people that are still avid supporters. My friend, Ali’s host family are very strong supporters of Pinochet because during his dictatorship the economy was very strong and there was no more black market. (During Allende’s presidency before Pinochet, the economy was so horrible and there would be times where there would be no chicken, rice or very basic things, and if there were those things available they were outrageously expensive. Thus, the black market developed, which obviously influenced a lot more crime.)
- Dieting is a hot topic but they’re way of dieting and exercise is very bizarre. My youngest sister is on a diet and will make my mom cook something special for her, like fish or chicken, but then once she’s done with her diet food she will then eat "once" with us, which is bread, bread, bread, and maybe some cookies.
It’s crazy thinking about leaving this place in less than 2 weeks and it’s just a very weird feelings. While I’m so ready to get back to the U.S. and be with my friends and family and speak English and have control over what I eat (I won’t have my host mom sitting there making me eat a plate full of mashed potatoes), be able to drive, eat American food (I’ve been dreaming about chipotle, foodstuffs, sushi kushi, gambier deli, and the wine and cheese shop), and have a cell phone, it’s just a very weird feeling that this 5 month experience is going to end. It was definitely that hardest thing I’ve ever done, being away from everything I know, not speaking the language very well, going to school in a big city, living with a host family, ect. but it was all so worth it and now that its starting to end I can’t help but think about all the things I didn’t do or wish I had done differently. I wish I had gotten more involved in the school, made more Chilean friends, joined a sport team, gotten involved in community service ect. but it was a hard transition and there were weekends that I just wanted to be home more than anything. Now that it’s all ending though and I don’t have time to do any of those things, it’s just so bizarre. I hope to keep in touch with my host family and visit Chile at some point in my life to see them again and spend time in vina. I’m also going to miss my American friends a lot but we’ve already talked about reunions and I’m sure I will keep in touch with a lot of them. Also next winter Axel is coming to Colorado on a work-study program so I’ll definitely get to see him again! Crazy, crazy, crazy, I don’t like when things end.
Okay enough reminiscing, tomorrow starts my adventuring and camping in Patagonia with my dad and I’m so excited. I plan to take lots of pictures and send post cards! It’s supposed to be such an incredible place and it’s weird that I’m actually going to be so close to Antartica! One of the days I’m going to see penguins! Can’t wait!
Hope it’s not too cold where you guys are, don’t worry I’ll hit up the beach when I get back and get tan (okay freckles and a little sun burn) for you all! Miss you! xoxo